I have had two friends with BPD over the years. I used to have a miss-understanding what BPD was until rescently I guess like a lot people.
I think I was my first friends favaorite person, for a while. I started to feel controlled and manipulated and I could no longer do anything right. The more I tried the worse it got, may BPD splitting thinking back.
It got petty say I was 10 minutes late we were not going anywhere.It became a drama over nothing all the time.
After being messed about for months over something really petty with endless excuses.

I decided I was nolonger going to play this game. I did speak to other close friends at the time about it to help move on.



Until rescently I did not know my other friend had BPD. All I new they were impulsive and like limit their sociol time.
My impulsive friend with BPD has got in to a rage on two occasions with me.
The first occasion, I am sitting with them and I asked what was stressing them. For what ever reason they did not say. I stuck with them as they were still stressing and it was not improving. I thought it might be my company. For them we had spent a lot time together that day. I thought some space form me for while might help. I had tried other things. I decided to go and talk to another friend say 20 feet away. About 10 minutes later my friend got up and yelled at me in a rage no build up before hand... For me a bit traumatic due what they shouted. Subsequently I have thought they may felt abandoned in addition to their stress, the stress I later found out was not me. The straw that broke the camels back. I initialy wanted speak, but as months went by I moved on. A year later my friend decided to contact me...

The second rage occasion, is once again hurtfull and complicated.
Part me wants to speak, but not sure its in my best interests at the moment at least.
I would like some answers.

When I message they do not reply, but thats not new.