I wonder if it’s the right time to have a cat if you are overworked and tired. You first forgot to send a form on time, then you forgot to attach pictures and missed some info (what info was missing? No one expect apartment numbers if you live in the house)

She maybe worried that if you are that forgetful, you’d forget to take your new cat to the vet or feed her or close the outside door etc You might feel that you are a perfect cat owner, but how could she know that?

You put a lot of responsibility on her: she should ask and she should say. But she’s not the one wanting this cat. It’s you. So responsibility is yours, but honestly maybe just wait a little getting used to a new job before taking a cat.