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Originally Posted by divine1966
I wonder if it’s the right time to have a cat if you are overworked and tired. You first forgot to send a form on time, then you forgot to attach pictures and missed some info (what info was missing? No one expect apartment numbers if you live in the house)
She maybe worried that if you are that forgetful, you’d forget to take your new cat to the vet or feed her or close the outside door etc You might feel that you are a perfect cat owner, but how could she know that?
You put a lot of responsibility on her: she should ask and she should say. But she’s not the one wanting this cat. It’s you. So responsibility is yours, but honestly maybe just wait a little getting used to a new job before taking a cat.
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I do remember to take my pets to the vets. It helps that reminders are sent out too.
I always feed my pets. I give them fresh water from the fridge too. I told her that I’d only give her organic high quality food. I’d mostly feed the cat wet food as it’s better for them.
Dry food, especially the stuff that’s sold in the market isn’t good for cats.
I also said they’d mostly be an indoor cat. We’d only let the cat out outside when we’re outside too.
She really is to picky. That ad has been there for over a month.
We are good & responsible pet owners. We’re not perfect, but most people aren’t perfect pet owners. We must be doing something right as most of our cats have lived to be between 14-16 years old. They were all loved & happy most of the time.
We don’t have other pets or kids. I was going to get another kitten to keep her company too.
This lady even said that we sounded like we’d be a good choice for the cat. We would’ve loved her & spoiled her.
I still think that she should’ve asked for whatever information or pics she wanted.
I would’ve. People shouldn’t be judged so harshly just for forgetting a few things.
If she keeps rejecting people for stupid things, then that cat will never end up getting adopted.
People like her shouldn’t expect an adopter to fill out everything perfectly.
That lady is way to picky & paranoid.
I find it to be bizarre too to how she was willing to meet me & show me the cat atfirst BEFORE sending me the form. She took forever to agree to a time & date too despite claiming to have a flexible schedule.
She refused say yes or no to times & dates I suggested. She finally agreed to a day, but not the time. She then agreed to see meet a time I said I wasn’t available already as I’d be at work. I didn’t mention my crazy o/t schedule btw to her.
Then suddenly she changed her mind. Weird! She is weird! She also originally asked to see our house in person.
Wth? I never once had anyone ask to see our house ever. My husband said no as he was uncomfortable with that.
I told her that then she said we can just send pics. Why not just accept pics to begin with? As I said, weird & paranoid!
My husband is usually home when I’m at work too. So it’s not like the cat would be alone for to long at home. And I’m usually hete when he’s not here.