@jesyka, I wasn't suggesting she had mental health issues, as I've never met her and don't know her. I was just pointing out that throwing around labels such as "weirdo" and "racist" didn't seem justified to me based upon what you had said.

I don't think it's unreasonable to check out someone who wants to adopt an animal, in terms of are they going to provide the animal with a suitable home and provide it with the care it needs. To me that's being responsible and sensible. By your own admission you forgot to do things, so I would understand that the owner might then question your suitability. The fact that you forgot to do things is on you, not the owner.

Either way, you stated in your last post....

....so I'm not really sure why you are seeking the opinion of others if you you know she is the problem.