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Originally Posted by NovaBlaze
It’s understandable that you were caught off guard. So, going forward, don’t have any communication again. From what I recall, from your previous posts, wasn’t this man abusive towards you?
Given how angry you are with yourself for talking to him, if he contacts you again just say you don’t want any further contact in future. Presumably he lives locally to you, which is how come he bumped into you, by chance?
It must be an awful situation to be in, but you don’t owe him anything. Remember that. You have zero obligation to this man. Keep strong and stay away.
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Yes, he was very abusive. And because I'm a nice and decent person, I cannot stay mad forever.
But I won't unblock him and I won't reach out to contact him for any reason.
He still wants to be together.. he even invited me to a concert.
Then he walked away in tears over us. He couldn't hold himself together and he had to walk away and leave the venue/bar. I didn't go after him.
True, I don't owe him anything! I don't feel I do owe him anything.
The only positives are he got to see and hear how well I am doing without him and I learned he is moving out of my neighborhood next month. So those are pluses! Especially him moving.