I asked mr fun guy for a real date. I saw him Sat night when he was working the bar at the music venue I went to... I don't know why I like this guy so much or what attracts me so strongly too him - but I feel a stronger attraction for him than I knew about. While on vacation, we texted a bit and I sent him selfies. Maybe it's that he's entrepreneurial that I like. He does a variety of jobs to keep himself afloat - part time real estate, part time whole foods, part time bartender and part time dog sitting... but, those jobs create a busy schedule for him, we live an hour apart, and it's been tricky to schedule.
That being said, he said he would welcome a real date with me, so we have that but just need to set it up. I am waiting to hear back from him on when his schedule will allow a date. In the meantime, I am smiling.