(Tart Cherry Jam) Definitely. An attorney is the most important thing to have on your side when dealing with a narcissist. They will not accept lies and gaslighting as an excuse for breaking the law. She's trying to get you upset by making you think your husband still has a thing for her, when really he doesn't feel that way. And she's hoping you'll think he's not on your side, so you might as well not even try to get him to help you hire an attorney to enforce child support.