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Old Mar 24, 2025, 12:08 PM
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33 years in a bad marriage & I communicated quite clearly at what needed changed. As I was leaving permanently he said: "but I did change". I clearly said:" In your own mind but it wasn't obvious to anyone outside your mind".

If you are expecting him to change, you might as well hold your breath forever cause it's NOT going to happen. Bottom line he sees no consequences that would make him change....this has been going on for so long, your getting mad at him is NOT a consequence, it is JUST your behavior. I left 18 years ago this May & my ex is still the same as ever as noticed by our daughter. I live 2100 miles away now so have nothing to do with him but am still in a legal battle against what he did to me financially. They never change
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