You don't sound like a mean person. Am I missing something? I sometimes have problems with people bullying me, although they don't seem to gang up on me. I think these people are usually trying with all their might to conform and be part of a group, and they see me as an isolated individual. So they want to find out if their conformist group membership makes them more powerful than me. Just for the heck of it. I didn't do anything to piss them off. Sometimes they think they need to establish that I did something bad, so they'll lay traps. For instance, they'll catch me rushing around, then deliberately stand in my walkway hoping I'll bump into them.