I'm 37 and totally love my wife. She is awesome in every way and I couldn't imagine not growing old with her. Unfortunately, I'm full of lust for other women. I feel like I'm just a small step away from having a sexual tryst. Not an affair with a relationship - just a one time romp in the hay like back in college.

I don't know what to do to curb my lustful cravings. I am usually good about not masturbating and thinking lustfully about coworkers, but I'm a fairly attractive man and I have women flirt with me frequently. It's hard not to think of having recreational romance with them. Currently, I'm on a two week business trip throughout Europe, I'm so charmed by the women over here. My wife is great but the women in Paris, Amsterdam, Helsinki...

Any advice is really appreciated.