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Old Jun 25, 2008, 08:32 AM
Lenny Lenny is offline
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Hi Immature37 and welcome to PC...

"Ah,,what harm can it do?..Just a quick romp with a beautifull, sexy stranger..."

Since you have taken the time to ask this question while giving us a view of your wonderfull wife,,,means you love and appreciate her,,,and have a conscience.

Your moral fabric will be torn by a tryst and the shame that will work on you like rust upon the pail will steal moments from your marriage and may very well take from you what you value most...

A conscience is our human barometer,,it tells us when a potential path will have costs,,sometimes dire...

My advice would be to stay busy,,find things to do,,visit places,,,purchase little gifts for your wife at every stop...anticipate with hunger that moment when you will see your wife again,,,,and think about how wonderfull you will feel in making the decision to look upon your vows to this great woman with the respect they and she deserve...

Have fun....

IMHO.

Lenny
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