My Ex-gf and I broke up a copuple of months ago afer two years.
I blame myself and my failure to adequately express my needs.
It ended suddenly as is common for me - a defensive response. Now she won't talk to me.

I want to write a letter with the intention of articulating emotions at the time. I want to find some closure. I want her to appreciate where these feelings might have originated. I want to leave the door open to a possible reconciliation.

Have you experience of writing a post-break-up letter? How did things go for you? Can you recommend any particular approach?