Oh, my, do I know what your going through! I've been with my husband for 10 years and I'm finally realizing I don't think I'm going to be able to put up with this anymore! We've tried everything and noting seems to help! I never thought I would care so much about sex, but I guess you don't realize how much it matters until your not sexually fulfilled. I wish you luck though, just because we can't figure it out, doesn't mean you won't.