I am a married mother of three beautiful children. My husband & I have been together since we were 16 years old, 18 years. Our relationship has always been pretty rocky. Although I was never sure why. My husband is the best father I have ever seen, both emotionally & financially. He is also a very loving husband, attentive, appreciative, & affectionate. So what’s the problem, right? I have separated from him a couple of times and had relationships with other men, not a secret, but we always end up back together. I would always regret leaving & could never understand why I was always stirring things up to the point of separating.

After some recent self reflection & many months spent trying to figure out the problem, I came to realize the issue was sexual. I am not sexually fulfilled in any way. My husband is very sexually inexperienced, having only two partners including myself. Sex is usually under three minutes and size is somewhat of an issue. I have gently tried to bring some of these things up, but he gets extremely offended & brushes it off. He has sought medical help for the PE, to no avail. Even with all the good I just can’t seem to get past this. I love my husband very much, but I can’t see myself living like this much longer. Any thoughts?