Several months ago my therapist said that my "behaviors" seem to be obsessive compulsive. I thought, well, I don't have any daily, routine compulsions that I have to do to keep my anxiety down, so I wasn't sure with that diagnosis.
Thank you for bringing up OCPD. I looked into that and that is what I figured she must be talking about (which she confirmed today at my session). I am a perfectionist and have definite ideas of right and wrong and a very strict moral code. It's pretty hard on my husband sometimes.
Anyway, you aren't the only one here with that disorder apparently. Thanks for bringing it to my attention. I wish you all the luck in the world working on it, coping with it. I know it is hard.
Take care!