He was always a homebody. He has anxiety. His anxiety is abandonment based. He used to He anxious about his father, who travels the world. Now he's anxious about me working down the street from our house. So now he wants me at his side. Or first thing he does when he wakes up is to check the tracking app.

I understand he has anxiety..me being gone is his trigger. And I'm in a mental slump, so me being out of the house makes me feel better. So we both have are needing different things.

He could do a day shift as a security guard, but he's currently searching for a desk job with similar hours but no luck. Bad timing with the government changes and people getting fired or quitting. So he's been getting an interview every 2 weeks. But nothing past the initial interview.