Ya know, i think you have to flat out tell somebody, maybe in writing sonewhere, i did not eat for x days, i have lost y lbs in z days, i am low k, dehydrated, and i am now physically unable to eat.
What is going on with these people? Its like the 5 blind men and the elephant. (They pick one thing.)
Have you researched refeeding? Is there any way you can do it yourself?
Probably doesnt help being a holiday weekend.