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i hear you hon, my hubby also avoids telling me stuff 'in order not to worry you' then when a letter comes thru the door involving bailiffs he thinks i wont have a panic attack? He leaves things right until the last minute too .... gas threatening to cut us off right now

i'm past caring to be honest .... take care, huggies, Jin xoxoxoxoxo sorry this isn't helping, just don't know what to say, just wanted you to know you're not on your own ....