I don’t know how old is your husband but maybe he should take some classes and get some credentials to help him find a career for himself. I suspect security guard is not paid well. Is the night shift pays better? In my husbands line if work night shifts pay way better but we decided to give up that money in exchange for some sanity.

Yes government jobs might be hard to find but it could be something else. Not government job

I understand anxiety disorders (my husband is severe OCD, so it’s not easy) is he seeing a doctor or a therapist? If not then he should. It’s his responsibility to take care of his health.

You don’t need to make yourself small to keep him happy.
Sure he’s your spouse but there’s more to life.

Tracking app? Like needs to always know where you are at??? Hhmm