Before we separated I told my stbx wife:

You are doing things that can't be undone.

Your kids need you. You need to stop all this and work on your attachment with them.

The things you are threatening aren't possible. Please, listen to me. Things won't work the way your friends are telling you.

You don't have a say about what I do if we aren't together. I'm not going to live beholden to you. I'll work and live where it works for me.

You can't rewrite our history. The things you are claiming just didn't happen. Please stop all of this.

Please go to counselling and listen to the kids. You are losing them. I don't have to take part if you don't want me to. Go with them, especially the oldest.

One of the women who loaded my stbx wife up with the idea of how wonderful the single life is, is a woman who lost her husband in 2020. I looked after her home maintenance, her yard, and snow removal for a year after her husband died. She showed her appreciation by day drinking with my wife and surfing Tinder with her.

Her sibling and mother haaaaate me too. I never did anything against them, but they've always hated me.

I am DYING to tell everyone off lately and do a, "See?? See?? I told you this is what would happen!"

I'm also dying to expose her to the people around her.


Y'all are going to tell me not to, and going to tell me 100 reasons why it's not a good idea, and talk me out of calling or emailing anyone.


Thank you!

RDMercer

(edited a line for clarity)