Hi,
I am interested in this 'moral' bit. I have the same thing in that I have participated in imoral relationships, and tried to make them moral. As well as that, I find it hard to maintian friendships if I feel betrayed.
The trouble is, I so often feel betrayed, specially in therapy where I am, naturally the most sensitive. So I feel I cant pariticipate any more if the other person has behaved immorally in my view.

I do know where this comes from in my past. It doesnt seem wrong for me to be like this, yet, on the other hand, it brings to an end friendships, i end up unhappy and isolated.

do you know where your moral thing comes from?

riverx