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Old May 07, 2025, 03:44 AM
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I have to say, four days camping in the rain would not be my “cup of tea” - and I’m someone who really likes being out in the natural world, and I do like camping. Four days straight, in the rain? I would need to be in a good place mentally to enjoy that, but then, I’m not you. You’re the one that matters here.

Was it something that seemed like a really good idea at the time, when you discussed it with your friend? Were you doing it to please her, or yourself, or both? If it’s the former, then it’s always a questionable decision, if it’s the latter then will four days in the rain be ok? Sometimes things and people can surprise you, and be really enjoyable.

These days I try really hard to think before agreeing to socialise, or to pick an event to go to. I ask myself what I’m going to get out of it, and will I really enjoy it, or am I just defaulting to my desperate desire to please everyone.

Good luck with your decision.

Jeff.
Thanks for this!
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