sounds like you need to give yourself some love and a break. yes, i suppose it's frustrating and not a trait that we necessarily want, but just think how valuable it is that you actually have feelings when some people don't even seem to give a ****! there's a song lyric that always spoke to me, "i'm sensitive and I'd like to stay that way". it's like empathy. that's a good quality to have...even if it's a heavy burden. sounds kinda superheroic to me though!
hugs