It’s been several days since I heard from my long-time friend- the therapist one. I finally wrote him the following a few minutes ago. He read it. He probably won’t reply. I still think his relationship with his wife is messed up but I’ve said my peace about it now so I can just shut up about it now. Here’s what I wrote:

Hi. I’m sorry if I hurt you. That wasn’t my intention. I have been sick since the first and it’s turned into bronchitis. I care for you a lot and would hate it if I were the reason for the loss of our 20-year friendship.