In earthmama's thread, she reported that her T had asked her to think of ways she could feel more empowered in her relationship with him.

I think that is a great topic! I would love to hear other people's ideas on how they could feel more empowered with their own T's.

In her thread, earthmama responded that:
"I did think of some things that I need right now that would help feel like he is really "there". And I called and asked him for them. That made me feel a little empowered - asking for what I need, and getting it."

(earthmama, hope it is OK that I brought this to its own thread.)