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Old May 26, 2025, 07:32 AM
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It's 8:30 Am and I know she's awake already. She is not answering my texts. I am very triggered right now over this because my ex husband cheated on me, and it's pushing on that nerve. I want to confront her, but I don't want to push her away or cause waves since we hang out at the same place and know the same people. At the same time, I am angry at her because I believe she knew she was going to stay overnight all day long, and I feel she lied to me and deceived me by pretending maybe she would go home. I could tell she was headstrong on hanging out with this dude and getting closer to him again. I pick up on everything, and that's what I picked up yesterday from her through all our conversations and by watching her interactions with him all day long. I don't know how to handle this, so I resorted to ChatGPT for the answers. IF she even texts me back, I think I know what to say without attacking her or accusing her... but it so goes against my own values and beliefs about committed relationships. that I am having a hard time with it this morning. UGH. I also don't like the fact that I believe she lied to ME too about all of this yesterday. I think her intentions all along were to sleep with him. Hell, she says she "cuddled" with him the night before, but I suspect it was way more than that given how the two of them were interacting the next day. I suspect she will avoid talking to me until she is good and ready.
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