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Old May 27, 2025, 04:24 AM
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Originally Posted by NovaBlaze View Post
You said at the start of this part of this thread….


But now it seems to have become an issue. If this impacts on you directly, e.g. you are also friends with her partner, and you’re not comfortable, then maybe just distance yourself from her. You said she’s a new-ish friend, so cut your losses before it gets too much for you.

I can understand that her behaviour has stressed you and triggered you. However, she’s an adult, responsible for her own life and her own choices. If she chooses to cheat on her partner then that’s her choice.

Jeff.
Of course it's her choice, it's her life, and it's really not my business. But she did invite me to hang out with she and her partner this summer at her beach home, and I don't feel comfortable hanging out with she and her partner now. I don't care to be a part of a secret like that.

She has also talked to me about this issue. She opened up to me and I gave her my thoughts. I have told her multiple times I think she needs an open relationship. This weekend she even talked about marriage! She is really truly mixed up! Her partner is a good dude and he doesn't deserve this.

Importantly, she has lied to ME, and now I don't trust her.
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