What if you thought about this differently?

What if you heard about someone else who was goaded, prodded, or coerced into doing something sexual that they weren’t comfortable with?

What if you heard about someone else who felt pressured to do something that went against their nature and their character because they wanted the love of their partner?

Would it look different to you if it was a man who goaded, prodded, or begged a woman to go against their sexual limits and boundaries?

What if that person was left with guilt, self loathing and a lack of self respect afterwards?

Would that person be deserving of love?

One of you wanted it done and is fine. One of you had your boundaries pushed and hates themselves.

Consider reframing this situation in your thinking.

You might be carrying this NOT because of guilt towards her, but because you feel guilty for betraying your boundaries and yourself.

RDMercer