What I learned @eksistor is to show gratitude while they are alive. Say the things you want to express that are signs of appreciation for all they gave to me. Forget the negative stuff. The kindness they gave far outweighs that, even if it was just keeping me alive when I was a helpless infant. Having expressed that I had an easier time when they were gone knowing I had in some way expressed my gratitude directly to them.

CANDC

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