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Old May 29, 2025, 04:18 AM
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My girlfriend claims she slept in her car Sunday night at the festival. I don't believe it. I think she slept in the tent with her side man.

The next day she got into a big fight with her partner because she brought up the conversation she and I had about them having an open relationship. I set her straight yesterday and told her please don't bring me into the conversation. He will think I'm the bad guy. It's my belief she doesn't want to tell him she cannot be monogamous, so instead, she places the responsibility onto ME for suggesting they be open. GREAT. I got annoyed with her, and she was aware that I was annoyed.

She called me last night and I acted as though everything was fine. She had a meltdown about her job, so I helped her through that and we said goodnight.

Now she may join me Sunday afternoon for music near her home. I didn't want her to join me necessarily, but she brought it up so I said I was going.

So, so far, I cannot distance myself.
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