I seem to be getting sexually frustrated lately because my partner just doesn't really do a whole lot. Don't get me wrong as for I am still very sexually attracted to him, however it just seems to be almost like a routine. I have even gone as far as to try to talk him into being more spontaneous or to even consider trying new positions but he just doesn't seem that interested. It seems as though I do all the work while he just lays there and while he always has his orgasm, on most occasions I do not and have to stop because he can't continue after this. Any suggestions as to how I might bring back the romance and excitement to our sex life? or is this just a lost cause?