I am sorry. It’s not easy but you got to protect yourself from the downfall. She didn’t seem to interested in a child’s life either. Makes me wonder if she was building up her business so she could leave

Talk to your lawyer ASAP. I recall you said she was putting money from her business ( while running your kitchen and house) into a secret account you had no access to. If she is contemplating divorce, she likely to hide that money now. Inform your lawyer about all this. If you’ll be taking care if a kid and a house alone , you’ll need that money.

She’s moving in June? Where? After she trashed the house, she’s leaving? Is she taking child with her? Is she just leaving your child behind because she wants to run a food truck after she already ruined your house running a commercial kitchen in it? Wow. I am so sorry.