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PolkadotDog62 - I am sorry for the loss of your cat. Pets can be like family members and when they die grief can be strong.
It must be a strain on you to feel responsible for your partner's well being. What about joining a pet loss support group? You can google the options by searching on
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joining a pet loss support group + your location and or online
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I am not a professional but after traumatic events PTSD can occur. This is a sample of support groups for that
The 5 Best Online PTSD Support Groups
It sounds like you already know the disadvantages of intoxicants - they only provide temporary relief and after the high wears off they act as depressants and the problems seem to multiply.
What does your partner think they are being punished for?
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