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Originally Posted by Have Hope
Loaning money, a lot of money like this, can be very tricky between friends, depending on the friendship.
Can you get your money back on the hotel, or is it non-refundable?
I would end this friendship. It sounds like a one-way street on your end only. She doesn't initiate contact, and she starts arguments when she has no ground to stand on, making it your fault, when it's hers to own.
She owes you money, and rightfully, you are asking her to pay you back.
If you can, I would cancel the concert and hotel plans and demand the money back. She is not a good friend for you.
There is no sense in asking WHY someone is the way they are. This is who she is. She is showing her true colors, so believe it. This is not how you would behave or treat a friend, and you don't deserve this kind of behavior and treatment. That's my two cents.
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I’ll never loan money to anyone again for sure! This friendship is mostly one sided! I don’t know. I really do want to go to this concert. I wanted to go so badly, that I actually paid for her ticket.
I only expected her to split the the hotel with me.
She was usually a good friend to me for years. I have noticed that she’ll usually use the excuse that she’s going through a lot to excuse bad behavior often.
Like she didn’t respond to invites a few times & them she got irritated with me when I asked her to please give me a direct answer next time.
I don’t understand her as she makes six figures a year & her husband works too. He doesn’t make much money though.
I think she’s full of crap & that she probably isn’t as good of a friend as I thought she was. Or she changed over time, idk.
Hopefully she won’t continue to disrespect me. If she does, then I’ll end the friendship.
I told her that too after she asked me if I wanted to end the friendship.
Wth? All I did was ask to be paid back! And for that I got all this b.s like how I’m trying to pick a fight, etc, ridiculous!