WOW - just WOW.

Yesterday I got involved in an ex boyfriend's drama and it totally backfired on me, so I can no longer go to the club where he and his friends hang out.

In fact, one of his best friends reached out to me, a woman I am also friends with and recently camped with, and attacked me! So I had to block HIM and HER!

Here's what happened.

He had lied to his most recent ex gf, telling her I was "chasing" him. So I reached out to his ex gf to defend myself and to tell her that in fact, he was recently hitting on me! I even sent her a screenshot of one of our convos so she could see that I was telling the truth! I wanted to defend myself and felt required to do so. I do not appreciate lies, or someone lying about me.

Well, his best friend came at me and attacked me for reaching out to his ex gf and accused ME of starting drama, when the drama came from my ex bf lying about me chasing him! WTF??

So, now I cut off those friendships and can no longer go to the club I like, where mr fun guy works.

I am so freaking pissed and upset over it. I had plans in a couple weeks to see two shows there. I told the gf that I camped with that it's too much drama for me and that I won't go to that club all summer. So, that also means I can't see much of that gf either because she lives an hour away from me, near the club, and the club is where we would usually get together and see each other.

And it's all because of this ex bf, who is violent with women, lying about me supposedly chasing him.

I didn't think that by reaching out to his ex gf that it would backfire. Instead of writing back to me, she told his best girlfriend AND likely HIM. WTF? He must have talked trash about me to her, enough that she didn't feel comfortable replying to me and ignoring my message.

I had been told that they had broken up even.

This is SO HIGH SCHOOL level all over again!!! I cannot even believe it.

So, now my summer is ruined.

I had planned to go to this club for various shows throughout the summer, and even added shows to my calendar for the summer. And now his best gf, who up until now was great, hates me and thinks I start drama, when the drama was started by my ex bf lying about me!

WTF???