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Old Jun 06, 2025, 04:21 AM
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Originally Posted by jesyka View Post
I’ll never loan money to anyone again for sure! This friendship is mostly one sided! I don’t know. I really do want to go to this concert. I wanted to go so badly, that I actually paid for her ticket.

I only expected her to split the the hotel with me.

She was usually a good friend to me for years. I have noticed that she’ll usually use the excuse that she’s going through a lot to excuse bad behavior often.

Like she didn’t respond to invites a few times & them she got irritated with me when I asked her to please give me a direct answer next time.

I don’t understand her as she makes six figures a year & her husband works too. He doesn’t make much money though.

I think she’s full of crap & that she probably isn’t as good of a friend as I thought she was. Or she changed over time, idk.

Hopefully she won’t continue to disrespect me. If she does, then I’ll end the friendship.

I told her that too after she asked me if I wanted to end the friendship.

Wth? All I did was ask to be paid back! And for that I got all this b.s like how I’m trying to pick a fight, etc, ridiculous!
To me, she's disrespected you enough to distance yourself from her and cancel the plans.
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