It would be a great shame if you allowed this to spoil your Summer, as horrible as it must have be to have been caught up in this mess.

Having followed your thread for a while now, it seems to me (as an outside observer) that none of the people you mention in your last post have brought any real lasting happiness into your life - only grief. If your goal is to build a whole new life then maybe cutting yourself off from them completely is the best way to go. How can you move onto pastures new with people who are abusive, messy, childish and selfish?

I know it’s easy for me to say this, as I’m not in your shoes, and I’m not the one affected.

Jeff.