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Originally Posted by divine1966
I’d cancel hotel and book my own room. You can’t cancel tickets since you volunteered to pay for hers (not sure why as she makes way more than you). But you don’t need to pay for her hotel.
I don’t think if people don’t call or text or initiate it’s because they have personality disorders. They just aren’t interested that much. I mean she’s interested in attending events especially if you pay for her entertainment and accommodations. But nothing beyond that.
Doesn’t sound like friendship to me. Especially since you call her BFF. Certainly not best friend at all
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Thanks, but I really, really want to go to this concert badly. A few of my favorite bsnds will be there.
She did pay me back almost everything as she paid me $200 via venmo today.
She’s not good with intiating plans, but she’ll say yes to going out with me usually.
I’ve noticed that a lot of people are bad at intiating plans which is weird.
She does hang out with me & pay for her own stuff when we go out.
I only paid for things to get her to say yes as it was an big expense & she is trying not to spend a lot these days.
She took a huge pay cut when she started a new job a few months ago.
I definitely won’t involve her in anymore financial situations though as she takes forever to pay money back & I don’t want to go through anything like this again with her.
I’ll definitely never loan anyone money again. It never ends well.