Blue bird - i used to say that 3 years was my limit on men, jobs, and apartments. My best friend in my 20s yelled at me because they had to buy a new address book (ie a physical bound paper notebook) because i had taken up all the pages under my last name letter with all moves. So i totally get impulse. But i had NO AWARENESS of it. It was just - oh, i believe this now! Nobody could tell me anything. I "blame" my mother. Nobody could tell her anything either. I NEVER won with her. She would literally switch sides in an argument just to win! So i never learned to listen.