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Old Jun 13, 2025, 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted by ScarletPimpernel View Post
I got my schedule with L. First 5 weeks, starting next week, is Tuesdays virtual. Then we jump right back into in-person Tuesdays and Fridays.

I’m scared of her. I’m scared of our relationship. And I’m scared of my attachment. This is feels too fast. But I’m not sure I’d like a longer transition time either. I want her back. I want to see her. But I don’t want the pain and drama from the last 2+ years.

Would it feel better to ease back in? Not sure what that would look like for you, but to go from once a week virtual to twice a week in person seems like a lot. Not sure what would work best for you though. I know you prefer in-person. Otherwise, I'd say you could have done, say, for the twice a week, one time in person, one virtual for a couple weeks.
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