Sky on your question about "it doesnt really matter because i am getting a new t soon anyway"
i suppose that means it doesnt matter whether she knows now or not because in a few weeks i wont have her..and will have another.
maybe i just wanted her to know before she left..
it is difficult for me to trust any t really..
i mean .. why should they care anyway it is not like they are going to poof them away for us .. maybe we just should stay away from Ts
probably safer.