She is living the single life, and I am paying the mortgage, covering bills that she ran up (totalling $7000), and covering two automated payments, and have kept her on my health insurance until we are divorced. She has also not contributed to the health insurance coverage for the kids.

She has contributed nothing, and paid nothing in child support.

I have taken on a 2nd job, and begun a self-employed consulting practice. The court views that as my proven ability to work 55 hours a week and capable of providing for her.

THANKFULLY my family doctor recently put me on blood pressure meds and sent me for a pysch consultation, so we had grounds to say, "Yes, he did this out of necessity, but it is breaking him."