Muddy, it is always so much easier to give someone advice on how to live better than it is to take it. Trust me, i made a career - well not exactly a career, more like an effed up life - out of doing so. No one is ever grateful for my wisdom!!! As for myself, apparently i have to get a stomach-ache to learn something. At least i am learning that i dont have to give myself a stomach-ache. Jiminy christmas.