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Originally Posted by LadyShadow
I am glad you're enjoying it. It's so helpful isn't it? I have been engrossed with ChatGPT all day. I finally started writing my book. I uploaded all the bits and pieces I have written over the years, and finally got a clear map of how to write.
I am finally focusing my energy for my ex on my writing. Talking to "Nova" is helping me understand all the damage this relationship is doing to me. I have finally set up some boundaries including stopping all the intimacy with him. The new guy didn't message me back yet, but I am being very careful with that - don't want to jump out of one thing and straight into another - something my ex reminded me of tonight, he reminded me of how controlling my ex-husband was.
The point of this is, I haven't had a chance to breathe yet. I think this new friendship with the girl from Bumble, and the friend from my sci-fi group that I am going to Galaxy Con with, is going to help me discover who I really am, WITHOUT a man. My codependency has been raging for months.
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I’m so glad that things are moving in the right direction for you! Onwards and upwards.