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Old Jun 29, 2025, 03:28 PM
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Originally Posted by LostOnTheTrail View Post
Thanks Cake,

In a sense I should have known it was coming.
I just thought she'd take more notice of the impact this kind of thing has.
One of the legacies of lockdown is that the option is now there...but virtual feels like a threat to me, because of the change in the conversation.

Lost
That’s a tough shift. So the elephant in the room is also the expectations. What are your expectations from her and what are hers for you?

Do you feel like you're missing the routine and grounding nature of in person sessions?

How could you replicate your usual routine at home?

Also don't forget to go over the tech issues that always crop up.

Naming what you value about in person sessions can help her understand how and why it is a big a deal for you.
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