Thanks @Blueberrybook and @Crazy Hitch. Thanks for the prompt responses, especially. I'm literally still sitting here at my computer, laughing and crying, when i hit refresh and your messages popped up. You give me hope for online dating.

It's just i found with Facebook dating, the guys are all dullards who will respond to a question, but never pose one. They say they are interested in me, then don't ask anything about me. I feel i am just there giving their ego a boost, while mine gets smaller and smaller, until i disappear.

I also find they can't make a decision and are effeminately coy when it comes crunch time to make a simple coffee date. Why are they there if they don't want to date? I feel they are there for attention, like little boys who want their mommy.