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Old Jun 26, 2008, 06:05 PM
Goldmine1 Goldmine1 is offline
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I have been married for five years.

I was a very successful business person. Yet ,his career gets us transferred to a new location annually. I knew and understand that. I designed by internet business to allow for the moves.

He is a wonderful man - very quite and easy going but not a communitive with me. We talk about his work.

We have moved to Nowhere, NE and for 3 years I have battled to get employees and make my company work. My company is failing and that is a loss of $250K a year income. (p.s. I make the most money and all of THE fancy "toys" are paid for my me).

My mother is 84 and her health was failing so we agreed two years ago to move her in our Large home and when we transfer again we would get her a mother-in-law house. (no transfer 2 years later and he would like her to move out) That is ok with me but very tramatic on a 84 year old women.

All I ask is that he helps me with the responsibilities of the home ( he works - watches TV, takes out the trash, and 4 times a year cooks dinner) Heck I did his online Master English class this quarter for him - and I got an A ;(

I told him my company was going bankrupt and he gives me no support other thank - "hum - ok".

So now I have a bleeding ulcer, mother being moved 1400 miles to her brothers town, a 2 struggling company, 7000sq home to keep and a husband who says he loves me but is tired of fighting over "???" I think he is tired of me asking for him to help me with part of the responsibility of the house and finances or at least hold be and give me some encouragment. My spirit is broken.

I was just hostipalized for the bleeding ulcer - so I went to a hotel for two days to think - only to come home and he is mad and took off.

Wow choose my health, husband, mother and/or company and our employees well fair. My superwomen cape is in the cleaners.

Good new my dog listens to me