Boy, I would be upset with the T just not being on the ball with keeping straight his scheduling. I mean if you don't show or you cancel at the last minute, he might let it slide a time or 2, but wouldn't he charge you if it happened more than that? It is written in my contract that without 24 hrs notice for cancelling an appt., I am obligated to pay.

I'm sure if there were a good reason--major issue like sudden illness or something that can't be predicted I'd be "forgiven" but he (your T) just sounds kind of flakey.

Also, I don't look forward to seeing my T. I know it is helpful & all, but it tends to be emotional & I don't like to open up those "cans of worms." I tend to be anxious before an appt. & would be happy if SHE would call & cancel at the last minute. No such luck. She's very reliable.

I start DBT next week (Dialectical Behavioral Thrapy). Did an intake with the therapist who will be leading the group & liked her very much. She doesn't put up with crap & I need a no-nonsense kick inb the pants to get me out of the emotional dfownward spiral I've been in.--Suzy