Moose, wow. I hope you can explain to your mother that your health takes precedence over how clean your apartment is.

Maybe you can get the family to come over and give you a hand, just to catch up? You know, many hands make light work.

Has the dr ever come back with a diagnosis from the liver biopsy? In your shoes, i might be talking to a lawyer about how the risk outweighed the benefit in this case, causing you ongoing hardship, at the least.