So I talked to her a lot yesterday. She says she knows we did our best. That her SMI clashes with her dad's. She's working on it. She wants to move out as fast as possible.We talked about why we home schooled and she blames us for the places we moved when to her we could have moved anywhere. She has decided she may have children and move to the "right" area. She's healthier now that she has her medication. Her whole team is changing too. She said something about financial abuse which I don't agree with and cptsd due to poverty not parenting which maybe. At least when she's on medication we get along better. She has faults memories of horrible things that she has done so reality testing is hard for her. She doesn't have a lot of insight which sucks. So while shes well she doesn't hate us. She's mad we moved out of our parents houses at 16 but she is stuck here. I explained a little. That moving out put a boundary up. It wasn't about getting away from family it was about how we could create boundaries with our families.